Vol. 31 - If your career were an Eileen Gu run this year… would you even podium?
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The part of your career that’s being judged in 30 seconds
In Milan‑Cortina right now, Eileen Gu is making history again, medals, records, Millions of people see 30 seconds of her run and think,
“Of course she’s on that podium.”
No one sees the ice burns, the training, the days her legs are shaking and she goes anyway. No judge gives extra points for exhaustion. They only score what they can see in the pipe.
Corporate life is brutal in the same way.
You are living the full training montage:
- the late-night firefights
- the emotional triage on your team
- the invisible fixing of other people’s decisions
- the “it’s okay, I’ll handle it” - again-
But promotions are only decided on the 30 seconds of you that decision‑makers actually SEE and can REPEAT
Not the years you held everything together.
Not the context.
Not your loyalty.
Just:
“What do we see when she’s on the stage?”
“What story can we tell about her in this room, right now?”
If you’ve ever felt that sick, hollow feeling after a promotion cycle, “Did my year really come down to THAT?”, You’re feeling the gap between the career you’re actually living and the tiny slice they’re judging you on.
Three unfair rules of the promotion “judging panel”
There are three rules almost no one tells women explicitly:
Rule 1: You’re being judged on a story, not on effort.
By mid‑career, the question is rarely, “Is she competent?”
It’s, “Can we TRUST her with bigger bets, risk, visibility?”
It’s a story about you, pieced together from random moments, not an honest interpretation of how you actually perform.
Rule 2: Difficulty doesn’t count if it’s not legible.
You are doing triple‑backflips in chaos: broken processes, missing headcount, moving goalposts.
If you report it as, “We delivered the project,” your difficulty level gets rounded down to “solid executor.”
Rule 3: The wrong judges are watching your best runs.
Your stars are the clients who adore you, the peers who know you always come through, the junior women who tell each other, “She’s the real leader here.”
But when the calibration conversation happens, the people in the room might only have a fuzzy picture:
“She’s reliable.”
“She’s great where she is.”
“I don’t really know her, but I’ve heard good things.”
That’s how brilliant women get scored like safe warm‑ups instead of medal runs.
The ONLY fix is to change what they can see, and what they can say about you when you’re not there.
Let’s pull this out of theory.
Block 30 minutes. No slides. No perfection.
Step 1 – Dump your last 90 days onto a page.
Projects, fires, negotiations, people you protected, things you said no to. Messy is perfectly fine.
Step 2 – Circle only three moments.
Ask yourself:
- “If a senior leader REALLY understood this moment, what would it change about how they see me?”
- Look for shifts in: risk, revenue, reputation, capacity, trust.
Step 3 – Turn each into a 2‑line ‘run’.
Use this structure:
- Line 1 – Outcome in their language:
“In one quarter, we halved onboarding time and unlocked room for 2 more high‑revenue clients with zero extra headcount.”
- Line 2 – What it proves about you:
“When operations hit a ceiling, I redesign the system so it can scale.”
Now read those 2 lines out loud.
Not in your head. Out loud.
Notice what happens in your body when you hear yourself say, “I redesign the system so it can scale,” instead of, “I worked really hard”?
That is you starting to skate your promotion run on purpose.
Three “Olympic visibility drills” for the next 14 days
The highlight reel is your raw material. Now we need to put it in front of the right judges, in the right way.
Here are three drills to run in the next two weeks. Pick one or do all three.
Drill 1 – The Commentary Upgrade (5 minutes after every ‘run’)
After any piece of work that COSTS you something (late night, tricky stakeholder, big trade‑off), don’t just collapse and move on.
Right after, capture three lines:
- What changed: “We turned around a failing client relationship; they’ve now renewed for another year.”
- Why it matters in senior‑leader terms: “This protects revenue and saves us the cost and risk of replacing a flagship account.”
- What it proves about you: “I can be trusted to de‑risk sensitive situations without escalating drama.”
These become your:
- promotion story examples,
- one‑page “executive impact briefs,”
- and the sentences sponsors can repeat in rooms you’re not in.
Drill 2 – The 60‑second Sponsorship Ask
Once in the next two weeks, use a real moment with someone more senior to turn a “nice run” into potential sponsorship.
Script you can adapt:
“I’d really value your perspective on something. Over the last quarter I’ve been doing more [type of work], like [short example from your highlight reel]. Over the next 12–18 months, I’m aiming for [direction:scope/level/typeofrole], From where you sit, what would you need to see from me for that to be an obvious yes?”
Then listen.
You’ve just:
- made them consciously think about your promotion story,
- planted a clear narrative in their mind,
- and signalled that you see yourself in the promotion arena.
Drill 3 – The Arena Swap
Look at your calendar for the next 2 weeks. Mark:
- Performance arenas: where you execute (project check‑ins, status updates).
- Visibility arenas: where power is in the room (steering committees, senior readouts, cross‑functional forums).
Now, choose one performance arena and upgrade how you show up:
- Instead of reporting tasks, walk in with ONE 2‑line run about a pattern you’re seeing and what it proves about your leadership.
- End with: “Given this, I’d like to suggest we treat [X] as a leadership opportunity I can own over the next quarter.” (in your own words)
You’re skating a different run in the same arena, and letting the judges see a different event.
Getting the RIGHT people to watch your run
There’s one more uncomfortable truth underneath all of this:
You can’t medal in an empty stadium.
If your best runs live only in:
- your manager’s memory,
- your team’s group chat, or
- your own private notes,
then the people scoring your promotion are working with a blurry, outdated version of you.
The drills above start changing that.
They move you from “I hope someone notices” to “I am deliberately putting my run in front of the people whose decisions shape my career.”
Do them once, and you’ll feel a bit awkward.
Do them for 90 days, and you will feel the room’s story about you shift.
If some part of you is thinking,
“I have years of runs no one has ever really SEEN,”
you are exactly who we built tonight for.
How To Be Seen & Heard at Work – Design Your 2026 Promotion Story
🕖 Tonight, 26 February, 7:30pm Singapore time (recording included)
In 90 minutes, we’ll work through three things live with you:
– the narrative that positions you as promotion‑ready, not just “good to have.”
- Your stakeholder strategy
– the 5 people whose opinion moves your career, and how to get on their radar before the next calibration.
- Your 90‑day visibility plan
– concrete moves for March, April and May so you stop hoping good work “finds its way up.”
You’ll leave with:
- a written 2026 promotion story you can use in your next conversation,
- a visibility map of who actually needs to see your run,
- and a 90‑day action plan you can start RIGHT AWAY
If you’ve been telling yourself you’ll “figure this out later,” this is your built‑in later. You don’t have to decide your whole future tonight, but you can decide not to walk into another promotion cycle with the same vague story.
If tonight is your first clean run, May is your eight‑week training block.
During our live cohort of From Hidden Talent to Visible Leader in May, you’ll:
- Step into a leadership identity that feels like you
- Build real influence by mapping mentors, sponsors, and allies, and learning how to work that ecosystem with intention.
- Stop disappearing in meetings and start speaking in a way rooms treat as decision input, not “nice commentary.”
- Design your next 90‑day move with a clear roadmap and a visibility plan so your work actually counts in the promotion season.
You get live coaching, a WhatsApp room that has your back, and concrete tools so “being visible” stops feeling like a personality trait and starts feeling like a skill set you own.
If that’s the shift you want for the rest of 2026, join the waitlist for the 8‑weeks May cohort here.
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Question: What’s one ‘gold-medal’ moment from your last 90 days that almost no one in power actually saw? Hit reply and tell us the moment and who should have seen it!
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